Anxiety is No Joke: Stress Levels Today

As someone in front of several children and teens, I’ve learned a lot about the inner workings of their everyday lives. There is pressure at wildly young ages to succeed in academics and extracurriculars. Losing sleep due to long hours of homework, projects, and exams on top of practices and club requirements. Inner conflict occurs when they have to figure out who they are and what they will do with their lives while tip-toeing on social culture lines. And now, with the help of social media and instant gratification, drama with friendships, relationships, and social image have magnified. I have often said I am so grateful to have been born in the year I was in, as I don’t think I could handle the constant pressures of being a teen today. But how high are their stress levels today? And how do they compare to the stress levels of past generations?

Teen Stress Levels

According to the American Psychological Association’s poll, Stress in America ™: Are Teens Adopting Adults’ Stress Habits? teens are experiencing stress in patterns similar to adults. And during the school year, those levels are even higher. Teens shared that their school-year stress ranked in at 5.8 on a 10-point scale. That number tops the adult average stress level at 5.1

31% of those same teens also reported feeling overwhelmed and depressed. Furthermore, 30% said they often felt sad as a result of the stress. 36% of them reported feeling lethargic and tired, while 23% reported meal skipping as a means of coping – or simply not having time.

“It is alarming that the teen stress experience is so similar to that of adults,” says APA CEO Norman B. Anderson, Ph.D. “It is even more concerning that they seem to underestimate the potential impact that stress has on their physical and mental health.” “To break this cycle of stress and unhealthy behaviors, says Anderson, “we need to provide teens with better support and health education at school and home, at the community level, and in their interactions with healthcare professionals.”

Generations in Comparison

On average, teens and young adults will admit they do not do enough to manage their stress. Fortunately, they are more likely than older generations to try to engage in more stress-relief activities.

  • Millennials and Gen Xers report higher levels of stress than Boomers and Matures. This has been the trend since 2012
  • Millennials and Gen Xers are more likely to rate money as a significant source of stress
  • Millennials are the most likely of the four groups to pinpoint work as a significant source of stress
  • Trends show there has been a sharp spike in younger adults who say their stress levels have increased within the past year
  • Younger adults are more likely than older generations to engage in stress management coping methods

Quick Tips to Help Lower Stress

Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of bringing ourselves fully into the present moment. It encourages us to accept whatever is happening, as it is happening. And it helps to raise your levels of self-awareness and compassion. The most common practices involve connecting with your breath and tuning into your surroundings.

Try our favorite mindfulness practice, “Come to Your Senseshere.

Let Go of What You Cannot Control

There are going to be things that work you up. The political climate. The actual climate. You can’t solely control a lot of what happens across the world. However, you can control aspects of your own life. How do you show up in your relationships? What kind of effort do you put into your work? What about the internal work? Remember, life isn’t about what happens to us. It’s about how we react.

Take Care of Yourself

Get your sleep. Move your body. Eat in a way that nourishes you and makes you feel good. Take the medications you need. Say no when you are overextended. Drink your water.

They sound simple in theory, but we all know how hard it can be to take proper care of yourself when the stress piles up. Take small steps, do what you can, and get back up and dust yourself off. These habits take practice but are so rewarding once they become a natural part of your life.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help and Support

Counseling can be a helpful tool to help you make the changes you need to live a less stressful life. Sharing your concerns and stress with your therapist can help you find the necessary coping tools. Therapy and counseling are safe spaces to voice your concerns, develop coping and communication skills, and find the support you need.

Remember, therapy is hard work! It can feel extremely uncomfortable and even exhausting. Having a hand to hold and help guide you will only add to your personal success. Cristina Panaccione and Associates Counseling has two locations in the South Hills of Pittsburgh and one in the Robinson area. We are currently accepting a limited number of new patients, so check out our services pages to learn more about how we can help you stress less in 2019.

* This information has not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This information is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Please contact a medical professional for advice.

Toni Contestabile – M.Ed, LCSW

Hi! I’m Toni and thanks for reading my bio— I like long walks on the beach, deep conversations..etc.. I am not your typical therapist. And I’m incredibly easy to talk to and very relatable. It’s not easy to bear your soul to a stranger, but I’m told that with me it’s easier than most. I hold a bachelors degree from Penn State, a master of special education from Pitt, and a master of social work from the University of Southern California. I’m particularly skilled at working with trauma, mood disorders, veterans and their families, depression, and ADHD. I operate from a neuropsychological perspective and will help you to understand The origins of your concerns, and will work to give you the tools to mitigate them as well.  I’m open to working with children, couples, and adults of all ages.


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