SOUTH HILLS, PA · TELEHEALTH STATEWIDE

Lauren Stark, LCSW

  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • Women’s Mental Health Specialist
  • MSW · Youngstown State University
  • Accepting New Clients

“I would love to work with you to create the life you want.”

Lauren Stark is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker at CPA Counseling’s South Hills office, also seeing clients by secure telehealth across Pennsylvania. A Women’s Mental Health Specialist practicing since 2007, she works with adults and couples on anxiety, depression, boundary setting, grief and loss, parenthood and postpartum stress, midlife and menopause-related concerns, codependency, and self-esteem. Her approach draws on CBT, DBT, IFS, and Exposure and Response Prevention for OCD.

Lauren Stark
No program commitments
UPMC · Highmark · BCBS · United · Aetna · Cigna · EAP
Adults, couples & seniors
Telehealth available statewide
8 years with CPA Counseling

WHO LAUREN WORKS WITH

Who she’s for

Lauren sees adults 18 and over, individually and as couples. She doesn’t work with children or adolescents, and doesn’t take drug and alcohol cases — if that’s what you need, our intake coordinator will match you with the right person on the team.

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Couples who’ve stopped talking.

Not couples in crisis so much as couples running on logistics — the ones handling schedules and bills fine while the actual conversation went quiet somewhere back there. Communication work and parenting differences are where she does some of her best work.

2

Women in the middle of it.

Perimenopause and menopause, parenting stress, the years spent putting yourself last. Lauren holds a Women’s Mental Health Specialist credential and recently sat on an expert panel at St. Francis University on mental health through the stages of menopause — this isn’t an afterthought on her caseload, it’s a focus.

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Adults who want tools, not just a listener.

People carrying anxiety, depression, grief, a transition that knocked them sideways, or a boundary they’ve never managed to set. If you want to leave sessions with something you can actually use, that’s how she works.

why work with Lauren

Start where you actually are

Life brings challenges often. Maybe you’re a couple who stopped hearing each other somewhere along the way, or a woman who spent years taking care of everyone else and doesn’t quite recognize the person looking back. You don’t have to have it sorted out before you walk in. Lauren meets you where you are and takes the journey with you.

The weight you’re carrying

The same argument, ending the same way, for the fourth time this month. The tiredness that sleeping doesn’t touch. The feeling that you’ve become someone you didn’t choose — a body that changed without asking permission, a marriage running on logistics, a version of yourself you’d like back. Saying it out loud to someone is where it starts.

What the work actually looks like

Lauren doesn’t hand you a program. She listens for what’s genuinely in the way — the boundary never set, the resentment nobody named, the years of putting yourself last — and takes it on alongside you rather than assigning it. She’ll laugh with you, too. She thinks humor is one of the more honest things you can bring to a hard conversation.

What changes by the end

Couples start listening instead of bracing. Women stop apologizing for needing something. The overwhelm shrinks to a size you can carry, and what opens up in its place is room — for your own voice, your own goals, and the life you actually wanted to build.

HOW LAUREN WORKS

One approach, assembled for you

Lauren doesn’t run a protocol. She’s trained in several bodies of work and chooses between them based on what’s actually happening — which means two clients with the same diagnosis often get very different work.

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Exposure & Response Prevention
  • Solution-Focused
  • Person-Centered & Strengths-Based

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When you’re carrying it alone

Anxiety, depression, the running commentary that won’t quiet down. Here, the work is largely cognitive-behavioral: catching the thought pattern in motion, testing whether it’s true, and building tools you can use at 2 am without her in the room. Held inside a strengths-based frame, so it’s about clearing what’s in the way rather than cataloging what’s wrong with you.

2

When it’s between two people

Couples who’ve stopped hearing each other, or parents pulling in opposite directions. The focus moves to communication and to the internal conflict underneath it — the part of you that wants to say the hard thing and the part convinced it’ll blow everything up. Naming those separately is often what unsticks a conversation that’s been stuck for years.

3

When the feeling outruns the moment

Distress that arrives faster than you can think, or a midlife stretch where everything feels like too much at once. Skills-based work here: concrete techniques for riding out the intensity, plus room to look at what the intensity is pointing at rather than treating it as a malfunction.

CONDITIONS TREATED

What Lauren treats – who Lauren sees

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • OCD
  • Marital & Relationship Issues
  • Controlling Relationships & Gaslighting
  • Grief & Loss
  • Postpartum
  • Codependency
  • Life Transitions
  • Women’s Mental Health & Midlife
  • Caregiver Stress
  • Self-Esteem
  • Adults
  • Couples
  • Young Adults
  • Women
  • Men
  • Seniors
  • Veterans
  • LGBTQ+
  • College Students

For OCD

Exposure and Response Prevention — rare in this region

The approach with the strongest evidence base for obsessive thinking and compulsions, and one very few clinicians in the region offer. Lauren works at a pace built with you.

“Life brings challenges often. My goal is to assist in bringing higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress and overwhelm.”

CARE PHILOSOPHY

No program. A plan built with you.

There’s no curriculum here and no set number of sessions. Lauren starts from what you bring and builds from there, which means the pace is yours — some people want to move fast on one specific thing, others need several sessions before they’ll say the real one out loud. Both are fine.

What stays constant is the strengths-based frame she’s worked from since 2007. She isn’t looking for what’s broken in you. She’s looking for what’s in the way — the boundary never set, the conversation avoided for years, the habit of putting yourself last that once made sense and no longer does. Those are the things you take on together.

She’ll also laugh with you. Lauren treats humor as a legitimate clinical tool rather than a lapse in seriousness, and clients often say it’s what made the hardest sessions survivable. Therapy with her is warm, direct, and honest about how hard some of this is — and built on the belief that you already have more capacity than you’re currently able to reach.

ABOUT LAUREN

Working together to create the life you want

Lauren Stark has spent her career on a single question: what’s actually standing between a person and the life they want, and how do the two of you take it apart together. She meets each client where they are and takes the journey of self-discovery with them, rather than handing down a plan from across the room.

She earned her MSW at Youngstown State University in 2007, trained from the start in a strengths-based approach — the assumption that you arrive with real capability, and the work is clearing what’s blocking it. Years in community mental health followed, and she has practiced at CPA Counseling for the past eight. Over that time her work has centered on anxiety, depression, interpersonal communication, life transitions and adjustment, women’s mid-life struggles, grief and loss, parenthood stress, boundary setting, and self-esteem and self-worth.

She holds a Women’s Mental Health Specialist credential and recently served on an expert panel at St. Francis University on how mental health is affected through the stages of perimenopause and menopause. That focus runs through much of her caseload — the transitions women move through with very little said out loud, and the strain on partnership and parenting that tends to arrive alongside them.

Lauren works with adults 18 and over, both individuals and couples, and is a particularly good fit for couples working on communication or on parenting together. Her approach is multi-faceted, and humor is a real part of it — she considers it a vital coping strategy for the hard things we face, not a detour around them.

CREDENTIALS & TRAINING

DEGREE

MSW · 2007

Youngstown State University

CERTIFICATIONS

Women’s Mental Health Specialist

ALSO TRAINED

Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP) · Internal Family Systems · DBT

FOCUS

Adults & Couples · Women’s Mental Health

IN PRACTICE

Since 2007

8 years with CPA Counseling

IN NETWORK

South Hills

via Telehealth – Pennsylvania

8

Years with CPA

MSW 2007, Youngstown State

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Women's Mental Health Specialist

Midlife, postpartum & menopause

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Personalized Care Plans

No program commitments required

CONDITION GUIDE

Therapy guides from Lauren Stark

  • Street Scene Spanish South Philly

    Mental Health

    It’s Okay to No Estar Bien

    In Philadelphia’s Latino community, strength and sacrifice run deep — and it’s still okay to ask for help. Therapy en español means being understood in your own language and culture, without leaving either at the door. Está bien pedir ayuda.

  • Communication Breakdown

    Couples & Marriage

    The Same Fight, On Repeat

    Most couples don’t come to therapy because the love is gone — they come because they keep having the same argument and can’t find the exit. The content of the fight rarely matters; the pattern underneath it does. Couples therapy helps you see that pattern, interrupt it, and rebuild the connection beneath the conflict.

  • Choosing a therapist

    Information

    Choosing the Right Therapist: Questions to Ask

    Choosing the right therapist can set the tone for your whole experience. The essential questions to ask — and why trusting your intuition matters.

COMMON QUESTIONS

Questions about working with Lauren Stark

What new clients ask most often before their first session.

Lauren is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Women’s Mental Health Specialist who works with adults and couples on anxiety, depression, boundary setting, grief and loss, parenthood and postpartum stress, codependency, midlife and menopause-related concerns, and self-esteem. She also treats OCD through Exposure and Response Prevention therapy, and draws on CBT, DBT, and IFS concepts.

Yes. Lauren holds a Women’s Mental Health Specialist credential and recently served on an expert panel at St. Francis University about how mental health is affected through the stages of perimenopause and menopause. She works with women on midlife transitions, mood changes, identity shifts, and the stress that tends to arrive alongside them.

Yes. Lauren treats OCD tendencies and diagnoses using Exposure and Response Prevention therapy, the approach with the strongest evidence base for OCD. ERP works by gradually facing what triggers the anxiety while resisting the compulsion, at a pace built with you rather than imposed on you.

Yes. Lauren is currently accepting new adult and couples clients at the South Hills office and through telehealth across Pennsylvania. She is in network with UPMC, Highmark, Blue Cross/Blue Shield, United, Aetna, Cigna, and various EAP programs. Request an appointment online or call 412-439-1416.